How sad for you to lose Pumpkin. If there was one wish I had, it would be that our beloved pet children would live as long as we do. I have had several of my family members pass over the years and it never gets easier. Just sitting here thinking about them now, my eyes are getting full. It takes a long time, but things do get better, the hurt will be less, and the joy of your time together will replace the grief. Bubba is sad for losing his friend, but I think he is more sad for you. He is feeling your sadness. Think of Bubba, he needs you to feel better. Maybe that thought can help lift you up. I know Pumpkin wants you to be strong for her friend.
If anyone deserves to go to heaven it's all the innocent little animals. I am sure all my little family will be waiting for me - if not, I won't be in heaven. So Pumpkin isn't gone forever, she is in your and Bubba's heart here on earth and she is waitng for you to be together again. Until then, I'm sure she wants both of you to be happy, and is so thankful she had you for her guardian.
If you would like more help, there are several pet grief help-lines you can call to get the comfort you need at this time. Here are a couple:
http://web.vet.cornell.edu/public/petloss/
http://www.petloss.com/phones.htm__________________
Holistic Wellness Care
