I don't see how he can legally make you leave the cat. Tel him you will sign a release form or whatever it takes. Have you seen her since the surgery? Are you sure she had no complications? She may want to be 100% sure you do not feed her if she is not totally awake. They all come out of anesthesia differently. She is just afraid of being liable if something happens.
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